How to Honor a Lost Loved One at Your Wedding
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Meghan Burmeister
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Jan 19, 2023
When we lose a loved one, there’s an overwhelming number of decisions that need to be made. And oftentimes, it can be difficult making these decisions as we go through the stages of early, acute grief.
Instead of rushing to plan final arrangements in a few short days, it’s important to know you have the option of having a delayed memorial service.
Below we explain why it’s never too late to plan a memorial service for your loved one.
Many funeral and cremation providers offer personalization options as well, so families have the opportunity to make the memorial service as formal as they’d like. Some common elements of a memorial service include:
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Many people believe having a memorial service several months after a loss won’t be the same as having had it immediately after. You may feel like you’re the only one who cares to have a delayed memorial service or that it will bring the feelings of grief back to the surface for all involved.
If any of these scenarios feel relatable, you’re not alone.
It’s important to keep in mind that no one has the authority to decide if and when it’s too late to have a memorial service for your lost loved one—only you can determine that.
Whether it was three weeks ago, seven months ago, or many years ago, our losses don’t just go away.
Memorial services are about much more than the practical consideration of a recently lost loved one. Not only do they help give us closure that the loss really happened, but they also allow us to express our grief in a supportive place.
For some, missing out on final arrangements could be contributing to more severe grief than normal—this is why a delayed memorial service can be so beneficial for surviving loved ones. Some additional pros include:
Once you’ve decided to have a delayed memorial service for your lost loved one, it’s time to begin planning. The following steps will help you plan a celebration of life to remember for years to come.
It’s never too late to plan a memorial service and you can do so with ease using our free funeral planning checklist. Inside we provide you with the necessary steps and answer the most common questions we hear as you embark on planning final arrangements. Click here to download your copy.
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